When I created Tie One On Day fourteen years ago, I had hopes its essence – that giving from the heart made someone else’s day brighter – would be embraced worldwide. And if ever there were a need for a worldwide hug, it’s now.
A few weeks ago, our little Temple in Pueblo, Colorado, was the proposed target of Nazi hatred. Thankfully, the FBI and local police thwarted his plan. Tho’ the attack did not take place, the idea of such violence against our Jewish community left us shaken. Friends from around America reached out, and in doing so, made us feel safe and loved. That’s kindness.
Thinking kind thoughts is empathizing. Acting on empathy is kindness. #JUSTDOIT
I like most people and enjoy showing them as much, especially with a delivery of a homemade food.
My first Tie One On Day delivery was to an artist. Upon attending a pop up art exhibit by neon artist Scott Young (find him and his talent on instagram @scottyoungstudio), I was immediately caught up in the excitement of his work and his genuine niceness. It was his description of a hectic schedule through the end of the year that led me to one thought: this man needs the sustenance of a hearty soup. Yes, that’s how I think.
The bean soup recipe I use is easily made in a crock pot. Freezing the soup and delivering in a container that does not need returning is always a good idea. Here we are at the pop-up. That we’re both smiling is the win-win of Tie One On Day, for the giver and recipient. #JUSTDOIT
Following the thwarted attack, a neighbor to one of our children gave our Jewish community a gift that required more than the requisite thank you note. For them, I baked Pecan Pumpkin Cinnamon Rolls…from the latest cookbook by my friend, Eliza Cross.
Because the delivery was on a Thursday, I chose this days of the week toweling. The note expressing gratitude was tucked beneath.
Kindness is taught, not by talking but by example. Accompanying me on her first Tie One On Day delivery, my granddaughter.
Gestures of kindness during the month of November are especially relevant. With all my heart, thank you for making Tie One On Day a part of your Thanksgiving tradition.
Since our return from a recent trip to Japan, I’m incapable of answering the simple query So, how was it? with a simple reply. Describing the excitement of 3 weeks of daily doses of wonderment, newness and discoveries cannot be shared in a few words. Over a bottle of wine, perhaps.
Japan so tantalizes the senses, our group of 4 agrees that it’s impossible to choose a favorite city, site, experience or cuisine, but with two exceptions: dry sake over sweet and Tokyo’s Digital Art Museum.
PREPARE TO BE DAZZLED
Just opened June, 2018, the Mori Building Digital Art Museum is undeniably Tokyo’s most exciting museum. Dedicated to digital-art-as-experience, it is also the first museum of its kind…in the entire world!
Envisioned by the digital art collective , the Digital Art Museum (DAM) is the result of a three-year collaboration between artists and technologists. From the genius of such an alliance emerged a morphing of art and technology, and the result is like nothing you’ve ever known before. To put heft behind such a declaration, take a peek at this:
Watching this 58 seconds of video, my reaction is pure Pavlovian – I’m immediately back in the corridors, heart racing with anticipation.
Unlike a circus – where the performances unfold before a seated audience – DAM encourages active engagement with mind-boggling digital installations further enhanced by Hideaki Takahashi’s gloriously synchronized music.
The music does not blast as at a rock concert; rather, the volume is modulated so those sharing the experience can be heard but not prove distracting. Conversation isn’t really a factor, as the commonality of expression is pretty limited to lots and lots (and lots) of WOWS!
Shimmering lights and forms dance across walls, ceilings and floors, responding to and set in motion by your touch. Touch! The big no-no at most museums, touching the art is the whole point at DAM. In touching the art, you become part of it.
THE MORE, THE MERRIER
DAM‘s multi-level interior is ginormous and provides opportunity for endless exploration. The 60 digital art works are somehow connected and magically transform and interact according to the presence of people and their touch. Math isn’t my strength, but this factoring is my kind of calculation: 6000 visitors a day x their touches = explosive awesomeness.
ALL AGES WELCOME
Japan is extremely family-friendly and DAM is proof. The interior is divided into five zones – Borderless World, Athletics Forest, Future Park, Forest of Lamps, and En Tea House – the Athletics Forest zone specific to children, with a section just for babies and their watchers, and a section only for kids. This zone is perhaps the happiest place on the planet!
FOREST OF RESONATING LAMPS
One further indulgence as I share this zone, which is breathtaking. Imagine a mirrored floor, walls and ceiling, the space hung with 1000 Mirano-shaded, motion-sensitive lamps. At different heights, each lamp is touchable and changes colors. Surrounded by thousands of mirrored images, the room is all warmth and wonder.
GOOD TO KNOW
Buy tickets to DAM in advance – https://ticket.teamlab.art/order. At 6000 visitors a day, chances of securing tickets the day of your visit will leave you crushingly disappointed
Dress for active participation. Think: sensible clothing and footwear. The Athletics Forest requires soft sole shoes
While the average visit is 2-3 hours, plan to spend the day. The DAM opens at 10 am and closes at 7/9 pm. Take a lovely lunch break mid-way.
Photos are allowed – selfie sticks are not! At some point, put away the camera…this museum is so much more than posing for Instagrammables.
There is no gift shop (insert my tears, for I so wanted the tee shirt worn by staff)
STICK A FORK IN ME…I’M DONE
Japan is a smorgasbord of fabulousness, a country so filled with tantalizing wonders, it deserves Travel & Leisure’s 2018 awarding of destination of the year. Any year you can get there, however, will have you in my shoes – incapable of answering the simple question So how was it? with a simple reply.
I am so fortunate to have a space in our home dedicated to just my apron world. With southern and western window exposure, the room light filled year around. Seven years ago I painted it a perfect deep yellow, and even on the chilliest days, with the sun and yellow walls, it feels warm and cozy.
But for sporadic attempts to keep the space tidy, it represents my habit of not putting anything away. Peruse a magazine source, find inspiration, and set it down; years of such a practice, and not to wonder the result.
What finally motivated an epic tidying was not my conscience nor Prince Charming’s eye rolling, but that all the pieces had fallen into place for promotional activity in conjunction with The Apron Book. With the support of the publisher, Andrews McMeel, Beth flew from her home to mine, where we were joined by Tracy Wahl, the producer of my 2006 NPR All Things Considered segment.
I had but days to “make it work.” Without an idea of how to begin, I just did. Loathe to hide away the collections I so love being surrounded by, I chose a selection to display. The remainder went into cupboards and bins and suitcases, hidden by the quilt and oil cloth covering tables. So I’d know at a glance what was in each storage point, I hung clues on the doors: a child’s apron designated children’s books and games; an apron with a tea towel embroidered with a lady reading a cookbook = cupboard of cookbooks; a vintage sewing manual….and so on. A selection of sewing patterns is lined up in a child’s valise, a picnic basket holds vintage black and white snapshots, pamphlets on food, etiquette and household tips peek out of perfectly sized make up cases. I was on a roll! And the end result is amazing and wonderful and joyous.
The filming of Beth and me chatting aprons was the gift of Dustin Hodges, a professional in the field and a best friend.
The next morning, Beth, Tracy and I discussed The Apron Book and why the apron remains relevant in the modern landscape of women’s choices. That discussion is a podcast, which you can listen to HERE:
This collage is a pictorial summary of our gathering. So many smiles, hugs, tears and love, as the best journeys are.
Find us throughout social media! And join the movement of apron love by tying one on…an apron, of course!
Gratefully, EllynAnne
About The Apron Book:
Warm and inviting, but (like an apron) quite practical, The Apron Book is a celebration of a great American icon. Apron enthusiast Ellynanne Geisel, who curated the traveling exhibit, Apron Chronicles, returns us to hearth and home in this updated edition of the award-winning book. In this paperback edition, EllynAnne reflects on the grassroots movement of apron love in a new introduction, and a new foreword by the former editor of Apronology magazine expounds on EllynAnne’s mantra that aprons don’t hold us back; they take us back because the connection to the past is a strong one.
The Apron Book showcases full-color photos of new and vintage aprons from Geisel’s vast collection, patterns for four basic apron styles and myriad variations, recipes, tips on collecting and preserving vintage aprons, and heart-tugging stories from the traveling apron exhibit. The book also explores the history and heyday of aprons and looks at the various roles aprons still play when worn in the kitchen, around the house, by the backyard grill, on the job, or for a special occasion.
Tie One On Day 2017 provided much reflection, as a means of honoring #nancyzieman and celebrating our recognition by the Random Acts of Kindness Foundation and its #capturekindness campaign.
Showcased by the RAKFoundation Week 2 challenge: Be Kind to Family, I considered the definition of family to include those we spend time with who support our endeavors.
Using that expanded definition of family, my TOODay 2017 recipients included two women I look forward to seeing at the gym, Roxanne and Karla. For almost 2 years, we’ve met four days a week at class, the commitment to attendance partially based on encouraging one another in our fitness goals. What better way to celebrate this sense of family than with cake! Taking a hint from the RAKfoundation website, personal notes expressed my appreciation of their friendship.
Throughout the week, I continued to #capturekindness with deliveries of individual slices of pie, complete with napkins and forks for instant yummy indulging, to those whose paths
I cross who unfailingly greet me with a smile.
For Thanksgiving dinner, we’re gathering at the home of our son and daughter-in-law, who are hosting the evening with two full tables of family and friends. An undertaking that’s been days in the making of cooking and baking, we’re arriving with a TOODay #capturekindness offering – a lunch of hearty soup and freshly baked bread to nourish the host and hostess through an afternoon of final food preparation.
May your Thanksgiving #capturekindness and celebrate a bounty of family and friendships!
The occasion was a celebration, with champagne and a dessert, the menu. Only a most fabulous cake creation would do, and within the pages of
CAKE, I LOVE YOU !, was this confection: a Dark Chocolate-Pudding Banana Cake. Author Jill O’Connor describes this cake’s chocolate pudding frosting as “…almost too decadent.” A chocolate pudding aficionado, I’d found the perfect dessert.
At first glance, this cake’s two-page recipe might intimidate; however, Jill’s talent as a cookbook author shines with straight forward, step-by-step instruction. For encouragement, I constantly referenced the photograph – three tiers of divine sumptuousness.
This is a cake completely from scratch. It’s helpful to study the recipe several times before breaking that first egg. Also helpful is noting you will need three cake pans of the same size (a detail I missed, which wasn’t a catastrophe but did have the cake looking a tad “Leaning Tower of Pisa”), and that the pudding must be made a day before use.
The day of, I baked the layers and assembled per the instructions. Minus the chocolate curls’ topping, the cake was a close enough approximation to have me pretty, pretty excited to present and serve.
Almost a week later, what’s left is still moist and delicious. Tonight’s dessert should finish it up, a sad note to what everyone who tasted agrees is the best cake ever!
Now, for some happy news – As a sponsor of Tie One On Day, Jill is giving away two (2) autographed copies of CAKE, I LOVE YOU!
In it’s 12th year, Tie One On Day is an annual opportunity to offer a gesture of kindness before giving thanks at Thanksgiving. Sponsors, like Jill, support TOODay because of the shared belief that through kindness comes change.
CLICK HEREto be inspired by how others are embracing Tie One On Day and to enter for the giveaways provided by generous sponsors, like Jill O’Connor, the author of my now favorite cake cookbook, CAKE I LOVE YOU!
Thank you for participating in Tie One On Day – and making someone’s day brighter.
In 2006, Andrews McMeel published The Apron Book, trailblazing a non-existent landscape with a worldwide movement of apron love.
Seen as a symbol of drudgery and an obstacle to women’s success, the apron is being rediscovered in a new and modern context.
In recognition of the apron’s continued relevance in our daily lives, The Apron Book is releasing as a gorgeous softbound with a new foreword crafted by a dear friend, Beth Livesay.
As a founding editor of apronology magazine, Beth knows aprons. For three years, we emailed of our mutual love for the humble icon and the exhilaration of the apron’s recognition as a canvas of artistic expression, the premise of the magazine. In 2011, our paths crossed, a meeting captured on video, for revisiting and recalling our excitement.
Six years later and Beth is the executive editor of Nails Magazine, a professional publication showcasing nails as canvases of artistic expression. Aprons to nails puts Beth in the forefront of recognizing the possibilities of blankness, no matter the canvas.
Seeking a new perspective and voice for newly crafted edition of The Apron Book, Beth was my first and only choice. Beth’s foreword is an acknowledgment of aprons taking us back and honoring the women of earlier generations, for it is because of them that young women can make their choices in a landscape of opportunities. Aprons, writes Beth, take us forward…the only place really worth going.
Please join Beth and me throughout social media as we tie one on…our aprons, of course! It’s a lovely ride, and we want you to be a part of it.
Warm and inviting, but (like an apron) quite practical, The Apron Book is a celebration of a great American icon. Apron enthusiast Ellynanne Geisel, who curated the traveling exhibit, Apron Chronicles, returns us to hearth and home in this updated edition of the award-winning book. In this paperback edition, EllynAnne reflects on the grassroots movement of apron love in a new introduction, and a new foreword by the former editor of Apronology magazine expounds on EllynAnne’s mantra that aprons don’t hold us back; they take us back because the connection to the past is a strong one.
The Apron Book showcases full-color photos of new and vintage aprons from Geisel’s vast collection, patterns for four basic apron styles and myriad variations, recipes, tips on collecting and preserving vintage aprons, and heart-tugging stories from the traveling apron exhibit. The book also explores the history and heyday of aprons and looks at the various roles aprons still play when worn in the kitchen, around the house, by the backyard grill, on the job, or for a special occasion.
Twelve years ago on Thanksgiving eve, I wrapped a baked good in an apron with a handwritten note of sympathy tucked in, and delivered it to a neighbor experiencing more heartache than should ever be. Her response of delight and warmth was unexpected and very touching.
In offering a small gesture of recognition to her family’s situation, I was stunned at the joyfulness that I experienced. The win-win of the exchange was so memorable, I knew it had to be shared. So I created TIE ONE ON DAY™.
To encourage adding Tie One On Day to your Thanksgiving traditions, a dedicated group of generous SPONSORSare putting some fabulous “give” into the TOODAY 2017 GOODIE GIVEAWAYS!
To enter the Tie One on Day Giveaways,leave a comment at the end of this blog posting, sharing how you will participate in this year’s TOOD. Your comment is your entry into the November 22nd giveaway drawings! Four (4) Giveaway Winners will be randomly selected and contacted via their provided email. ***Winner must live within the USA.
Thanksgiving is a holiday of sharing, recollection and traditions, and the apron symbolizes these concepts.
Please join in and tie one on…an apron, of course! and make a difference in someone’s life with a gesture of kindness.
TIE ONE ON … GIVE FROM THE HEART … THEN GIVE THANKS
Over the past eleven years, my Tie One On Day gestures of kindness have centered around deliveries of baked goods, hearty soups and casseroles.
This year’s November deliveries have been of that norm, until my path crossed last Monday with Megan, a long-ago high school classmate of my sons. In playing catch up, she mentioned preparing for hosting an extended family Thanksgiving for forty (!), and in attendance would be her husband’s beloved grandmother, Eleanor Rusler.
Some 16 years ago, I told Megan, Eleanor was among the first to share her apron memory with me. I remember visiting her at the farm, where she reminisced about her grandmother, a wonderful seamstress who made pin money by sewing clothing, including aprons, for others. Her story and aprons were included in The Apron Book.
Eleanor gave me an apron sewn by her grandmother, and it was time to return it to her family.
In a Tie One On Day package, I included the apron and a copy of my book with Eleanor’s story marked with an apron cut-out, on which I’d written an apron memory of my own. Copy the template, I wrote to Megan, and provide pens to her guests to record their apron memories of Eleanor; then read the memories aloud.
Eleanor had never mentioned to the family that she was once interviewed for an apron recollection that was included in a book. Megan’s delight when she heard this news solidified my decision to return the apron to its rightful home.
Preparing the package, I experienced the same unexpected joy of my first Tie One On Day delivery, and the win/win of extending a gesture of kindness.
Giving from the heart before giving thanks at Thanksgiving…that’s the message of Tie One On Day.